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Joey Asher
President's
Perspective |
George Carlin, who died this week, taught us the “seven
dirty words that you can’t say on television”. If you
were paying attention, the counterculture comic also
taught us how to be a great speaker. He did three things
that we can all learn from: he took strong positions, he
spoke with passion, and he practiced a lot.
Carlin
Always Took a Position
Whether it was religion, government, business, or
sports, Carlin took a stand. That made him compelling.
Too often, I see speakers who, unlike Carlin, won’t take
a position. They’re afraid. As a result, their
presentations are dull and don’t help their listeners.
I was working with a speaker who felt that a business
initiative should be killed. But his speech only planned
to lay out the facts. The speaker hoped that listeners
would “see the light” and kill the project. After
hearing him practice, I asked, “Why don’t you say, ‘This
project needs to end. It’s a waste of resources. And
here’s why?’” The speaker was afraid to be so blunt. But
his waffling made his presentation confusing.
Carlin reminded us that good speaking isn’t just about
organizing thoughts and speaking with energy. It’s also
about saying something pointed and taking a position.
It’s about leadership.
Carlin
Spoke with Passion
Carlin also reminded us of the importance of passionate
delivery. He spoke with excitement in his voice. He used
wonderful facial expressions. He got a total workout as
he spoke.
Most people in business speak with little passion.
Working with an attorney at a large Atlanta firm, I
watched silently as he spoke about a lawsuit. He sounded
like he was reading a telephone book.
“Triple your energy level,” I told him. “You seem bored.
Try sticking your finger in that light socket over
there.”
He needed to be more like George Carlin.
Carlin
Practiced Like Crazy
Like all great comics, George Carlin rehearsed a lot.
I once took a comedy class from Jeff Justice, who has
been teaching stand-up in Atlanta for years with his
“Comedy Workshoppe”. It was a great class that focused
on how to write and deliver jokes. One of the things
that most impressed me was Jeff’s emphasis on rehearsal.
The graduation was a performance at The Punch Line in
Sandy Springs. Before letting us go live, Jeff made us
rehearse our five-minute bits over and over until we had
the timing down perfectly.
The reason, he explained, was that comedy depends on
saying the words of the joke just right. “One word out
of place and it might not be funny,” he told us. “So you
have to practice saying it just right.” He was right.
All of us in the class learned that much of stand-up
depends on perfect word order. So we practiced a lot.
Watching George Carlin, you could see that he did the
same thing. He was a true word lover and it was obvious
that he practiced saying things a certain way to ensure
that they were as funny as possible. You could watch his
routine five times and it would sound the same each
time.
I’m not saying that you should memorize presentations
word for word. Unlike stand-up comedy, a presentation
does not depend on saying every word in perfect order.
But rehearsal is critical. Great speakers practice a
lot. They may not say things exactly the same way every
time. But they do have a strong sense of the words they
want to use and where.
George Carlin left a wonderful legacy of
anti-establishment comedy. Regardless of whether you
agreed with him, we can all learn from how he held an
audience.
Joey
Asher is President of Speechworks, a selling and
communication skills coaching company in Atlanta. He has
worked with thousands of business people in helping them
become better communicators. He is the author of “Even A
Geek Can Speak”, and “Selling and Communication Skills
for Lawyers”. He can be reached at 404-266-0888 or
e-mail Joey Asher.
His website is
www.speechworks.net. |